If you feel unsafe, you don't have to handle this alone.
Emergency (police): 100
National family-violence hotline (24/7, free): 118
Can't speak safely? Silent SMS line: 055-7000128
A private space to steady yourself, understand what was really said, and answer in a way you'll be glad you did.
Tell me what you're second-guessing. I'll help you see it clearly — no judgment.
Paste a message you received. I'll name the tactic and tell you plainly what it's doing.
Paste a message you received. I'll tell you whether it even needs a reply.
Paste your draft — even the angry version. Pick how you want to sound.
Paste a message you're about to send. I'll flag anything that could look bad if a judge ever reads it.
Paste or upload a whole conversation. I'll map the pattern, not just one line.
Tell me the situation and what you need to say to your child.
Build a calm, factual record for a lawyer. Nothing is saved — export before you close.